Having lived in Thailand for many years and running this blog for over a decade, I have come there and done it: read the book, wore a shirt, and took both red and blue pills.
So I know a few things about Thailand women and dating in Thailand. I have seen many success stories, others have seen them end in tears. My inbox has also seen many furious boyfriend/husband/boyfriend words.
So before you start your mother dating search of Thai girl dating, I hope this insight is helpful. It will save you time, money and mental anguish.
- Don't rush (say the saints)
Easy to carry: sun, sea, sand, parties, cheap food and drink and sexy women.
This is another world when you first come to Thailand.
You may find that you have more interest in the opposite sex than you do back home. Newsflash: All of this interest is not because you have a pretty face.
So, before you sell your house and declare your indestructible love for the maid in your apartment block, or give the woman an extra ice cube at your local bar, take it easy…
The best advice anyone can give when dating in Thailand is to never do anything you don't do back home. It's easy to say when you don't have rose-colored glasses, but living a relaxed life is a good rule.
Within two weeks of meeting a woman in Thailand, I knew the guys who converted them into an apartment, paid them a month's salary, met their family and started getting married.
I don't see anyone judging here, these things do benefit some people, but do you do this in your own country - do you feel that you have a future even if you go on a date with a woman?
It’s not just about protecting you; It's also about protecting the person you're engaging with.
I have known many men who have returned home or into the ether of Southeast Asia and then suddenly disappeared and disappeared.
After several months, they realized that the person they were involved with was not the person they thought they were for one reason or another.
They realized that the relationships in Thailand were no different from any other country. There is no perfect rose garden.
So take it easy. Enjoy the dating process. Get to know someone properly before you commit to commitments and your entire life.
I know this sounds attractive because back home things are boring and routine and women are only interested in men with a lot of money… yada, yada, yada.
Again, you will encounter this in Thailand too. It's not just western women who want the good stuff.
Do as you return home.
Find someone like beautiful Thai women who shares your interests, someone who makes you laugh, and a financial coworker who isn't a cow or their whole family.
A good goal is to find an independent partner that will do well whether you are in their life or not.
